\u0130K\u0130NC\u0130 B\u00d6L\u00dcM-MART AYI-G\u0130R\u0130\u015e:
NARS\u0130ZM SADECE KEND\u0130N\u0130 BE\u011eENMEK DE\u011e\u0130L, SOSYAL \u0130L\u0130\u015eK\u0130LERDE
KARMA\u015eIK DAVRANI\u015eLAR SERG\u0130LEMEKT\u0130R. R\u00d6PORTAJIMIZIN
\u0130K\u0130NC\u0130 B\u00d6L\u00dcM\u00dcNDE NARS\u0130ST K\u0130\u015e\u0130L\u0130KLER\u0130N FARKLI T\u00dcRLER\u0130N\u0130,
SOSYAL YA\u015eAMDA NASIL DAVRANDIKLARINI VE K\u0130MLERDE
G\u00d6R\u00dcLD\u00dc\u011e\u00dcN\u00dc \u0130\u015e\u0130N UZMANINDAN \u00d6\u011eRENECE\u011e\u0130Z. KEY\u0130FL\u0130
OKUMALAR D\u0130LER\u0130Z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Narsizmin kendi i\u00e7inde farkl\u0131 t\u00fcrleri var m\u0131d\u0131r ?
Tek tip bir narsisizm yoktur. Evet, narsisizmin kendi i\u00e7inde farkl\u0131 t\u00fcrleri vard\u0131r.
Narsisizmin bu t\u00fcrleri aras\u0131ndaki temel fark, narsist ki\u015filerin \u201cnarsistik besin\u201d denilen ilgi
ve hayranl\u0131\u011f\u0131 nas\u0131l arad\u0131klar\u0131d\u0131r. Genellikle iki ana t\u00fcrden bahsedilir, ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar iki
temel tip oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermektedir.
1- B\u00fcy\u00fcklenmeci (A\u00e7\u0131k) Narsisizm: Bu bizim en \u00e7ok bildi\u011fimiz tiptir. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6z g\u00fcvenli,
kibirli, kendini a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6ren, dikkat \u00e7ekmekten ho\u015flanan narsistlerdir. Genellikle
sosyal ortamlarda bask\u0131n ve g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fcd\u00fcrler.
2- K\u0131r\u0131lgan (Gizli) Narsisizm: D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan m\u00fctevaz\u0131 veya utanga\u00e7 g\u00f6r\u00fcnebilirler ancak i\u00e7
d\u00fcnyalar\u0131nda yo\u011fun bir kibir ve \u00f6zel olma hissi vard\u0131r. Ele\u015ftiriye a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 duyarl\u0131d\u0131rlar,
s\u00fcrekli kurban veya ma\u011fdur rol\u00fcn\u00fc oynayarak dolayl\u0131 yoldan ilgi ve hayranl\u0131k
beklerler. Gizli narsistler, \u00f6zellikle partnerlerini su\u00e7lama ve pasif-agresif davran\u0131\u015flar
konusunda ustad\u0131rlar.
Klinik Literat\u00fcrde farkl\u0131 farkl\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f kal\u0131plar\u0131 sergileyen \u00e7e\u015fitli alt t\u00fcrler de
bulunmaktad\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131 da \u015f\u00f6yle s\u0131ralayabiliriz:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\uf0b7 Toplumsal (Komunal) Narsisizm: Kendilerini yard\u0131msever veya \u201cd\u00fcnyay\u0131
kurtaran ki\u015fi\u201d olarak pazarlarlar. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yard\u0131m etme davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131, kendi
\u201charika\u201d imajlar\u0131n\u0131 beslemek ve takdir toplamak i\u00e7in bir ara\u00e7 olarak kullan\u0131rlar.
\uf0b7 Somatik Narsisizm: Kendilerini fiziksel g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fleri, v\u00fccutlar\u0131 ve cazibeleri
\u00fczerinden tan\u0131mlarlar. \u00c7ekiciliklerine a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 tak\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olan narsistlerdir.
\uf0b7 Bayinsel (Entelekt\u00fcel) Narsisizm: Zekalar\u0131, ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131, bilgileri ve yetenekleri
sayesinde \u00fcst\u00fcn olduklar\u0131na inan\u0131rlar. Di\u011fer insanlar\u0131 zeka seviyeleri nedeniyle
k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyen narsistlerdir.
\uf0b7 Te\u015fhirci (Eksibisyonist) Narsisizm: Hayranl\u0131k uyand\u0131rmak ve \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck sa\u011flamak
i\u00e7in s\u00fcrekli \u00e7aba g\u00f6steren g\u00f6steri\u015f\u00e7i tiplerdir.
\uf0b7 De\u011fersizle\u015ftirici Narsisizm : \u0130li\u015fkilerde s\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ele\u015ftiren, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131layan
ve sald\u0131rgan tutum sergileyen narsist t\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr.
\uf0b7 Habis (Maling) K\u00f6t\u00fc Huylu Narsisizm: Narsisizmin en \u015fiddetli formudur.
B\u00fcy\u00fcklenmecilik, antisosyal davran\u0131\u015flar, paranoya ve sadizm (ba\u015fkalar\u0131na zarar
vermekten zevk alma) ile birlikte seyreder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Narsistlerin sosyal ili\u015fkilerdeki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 nas\u0131ld\u0131r? Narsist Ki\u015filik Bozuklu\u011fu (NKB), genellikle ergenlik veya erken yeti\u015fkinlik EN\u0130SE MOLLA AHMET<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u0130K\u0130NC\u0130 B\u00d6L\u00dcM-MART AYI-G\u0130R\u0130\u015e:NARS\u0130ZM SADECE KEND\u0130N\u0130 BE\u011eENMEK DE\u011e\u0130L, SOSYAL \u0130L\u0130\u015eK\u0130LERDEKARMA\u015eIK DAVRANI\u015eLAR SERG\u0130LEMEKT\u0130R. R\u00d6PORTAJIMIZIN\u0130K\u0130NC\u0130 B\u00d6L\u00dcM\u00dcNDE NARS\u0130ST K\u0130\u015e\u0130L\u0130KLER\u0130N FARKLI T\u00dcRLER\u0130N\u0130,SOSYAL YA\u015eAMDA NASIL DAVRANDIKLARINI VE K\u0130MLERDEG\u00d6R\u00dcLD\u00dc\u011e\u00dcN\u00dc \u0130\u015e\u0130N UZMANINDAN \u00d6\u011eRENECE\u011e\u0130Z. KEY\u0130FL\u0130OKUMALAR D\u0130LER\u0130Z. Narsizmin kendi i\u00e7inde farkl\u0131 t\u00fcrleri var m\u0131d\u0131r ?Tek tip bir narsisizm yoktur. Evet, narsisizmin kendi i\u00e7inde farkl\u0131 t\u00fcrleri vard\u0131r.Narsisizmin bu t\u00fcrleri aras\u0131ndaki temel fark, narsist ki\u015filerin \u201cnarsistik besin\u201d<\/p>\n
\u015eimdiye kadar konu\u015ftuklar\u0131m\u0131zdan da anla\u015f\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 \u00fczere, bir narsist i\u00e7in ili\u015fkiler, kendi
benlik sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 besleme ara\u00e7lar\u0131d\u0131r; kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi ve sayg\u0131ya dayal\u0131 ortakl\u0131klar
de\u011fildir. Narsistlerin sosyal ili\u015fkilerdeki davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, temelde kendi \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fcklerini
kan\u0131tlama, hayranl\u0131k duyulma ihtiyac\u0131 ve empati eksikli\u011fi \u00fczerine kuruludur. Bu
nedenle narsist ki\u015filer kontrol\u00fc elinde tutmak ve kendi \u201cger\u00e7ekli\u011fini\u201d dayatmak i\u00e7in
bir dizi duygusal manip\u00fclasyon tekni\u011fi kullan\u0131rlar. Bunlar\u0131 da \u015f\u00f6yle s\u0131ralayabiliriz:
\uf0b7 Gaslighting (Psikolojik Manip\u00fclasyon) ve \u0130nkar: Narsist, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc
\u015feyleri, hatalar\u0131 reddeder, \u201cben b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey s\u00f6ylemedim\u201d, \u201csen \u00e7ok hassass\u0131n,
abart\u0131yorsun\u201d, \u201cnereden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yorsun?\u201d gibi s\u00f6zlerle su\u00e7u kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa y\u00fckler,
ger\u00e7eklik alg\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 zedeler ve sizi \u015f\u00fcpheye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr.
\uf0b7 A\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama ve Davran\u0131\u015f Bozukluklar\u0131: Mimikleri, s\u00f6zleri ve tav\u0131rlar\u0131 ile
\u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fc bir a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama e\u011filimindedirler.
\uf0b7 Sorumluluktan Ka\u00e7ma: Pi\u015fman olmaktan korkarlar, asla kabul etmezler.
Bunun yerine, hemen kurban rol\u00fcne b\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcr \u201c Bana bunu sen yapt\u0131rd\u0131n\u201d ,
\u201cE\u011fer sen beni sevseydin, ben b\u00f6yle davranmazd\u0131m\u201d gibi ifadelerle su\u00e7u
tamamen size atarlar.
\uf0b7 Yavuz H\u0131rs\u0131z Modeli: Narsist haks\u0131z oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 takdirde, haks\u0131z
oldu\u011funu farketti\u011fi anda, ba\u011f\u0131rmaya ba\u015flar, sesini daha g\u00fcr \u00e7\u0131kararak kar\u015f\u0131
taraf\u0131 su\u00e7lu duruma d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr.
Ayr\u0131ca, \u00f6zellikle romantik ili\u015fkilerde De\u011fersizle\u015ftirme tekni\u011fine ba\u015fvururlar:
( Love Bombingden Cold Shower<\/code>e)
\u0130li\u015fkinin ba\u015f\u0131nda yo\u011fun ilgi ve sevgi g\u00f6stererek, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 etkileseler de zamanla bu
ilgi yerini ele\u015ftiri, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseme ve de\u011fersizle\u015ftirmeye b\u0131rakabilir.
Narsist Ki\u015filik Bozuklu\u011fu kimlerde g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
d\u00f6neminde ba\u015flayan ve kad\u0131nlara oranla erkeklerde daha s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclen bir ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131
durumudur.
\u00c7ocuklukta a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6vg\u00fc, duygusal ihmal, travma veya tutars\u0131z ebeveyn tutumlar\u0131na
maruz kalanlarda daha y\u00fcksek risk g\u00f6zlemlenir.
\u00d6zetle, narsist olarak do\u011fulmaz; narsisizme genetik bir yatk\u0131nl\u0131k ile do\u011fulur ve bu
yatk\u0131nl\u0131k \u00e7ocukluk ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131 (a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u00f6vg\u00fc veya travma) ile birle\u015ferek narsistik ki\u015fili\u011fe
d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr.
Ayr\u0131ca, bireyci k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerde ya\u015fayanlarda ve ba\u015far\u0131 odakl\u0131 toplumlarda daha yayg\u0131nd\u0131r.
Ayn\u0131 zamanda sosyal konumu y\u00fcksek olanlarda daha belirgin olabilir.
MART AYI KAPANI\u015e:
BU B\u00d6L\u00dcMDE NARS\u0130ZM\u0130N FARKLI T\u00dcRLER\u0130N\u0130, NARS\u0130ST K\u0130\u015e\u0130LER\u0130N
SOSYAL ORTAMLARDAK\u0130 DAVRANI\u015eLARINI VE NARS\u0130ST\u0130K K\u0130\u015e\u0130L\u0130K
BOZUKLU\u011eUNUN K\u0130MLERDE G\u00d6R\u00dcLD\u00dc\u011e\u00dcN\u00dc \u0130NCELED\u0130K. NARS\u0130ST
K\u0130\u015e\u0130LER\u0130N DAVRANI\u015eLARINI TANIMAK, KURACA\u011eIMIZ \u0130L\u0130\u015eK\u0130LERDE
KEND\u0130 PS\u0130KOLOJ\u0130K SA\u011eLI\u011eIMIZI KORUYAB\u0130LMEK ADINA \u00d6NEM
TA\u015eIMAKTA. DERG\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130N B\u0130R SONRAK\u0130 SAYISINDA YAYINLANACAK
OLAN YAZI D\u0130Z\u0130M\u0130Z\u0130N SON B\u00d6L\u00dcM\u00dcNDE \u0130SE NARS\u0130S\u0130ZM\u0130N
\u0130L\u0130\u015eK\u0130LER \u00dcZER\u0130NDEK\u0130 ETK\u0130LER\u0130N\u0130 VE BA\u015eA \u00c7IKMA
Y\u00d6NTEMLER\u0130N\u0130 KONU\u015eACA\u011eIZ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n