DAMAT TIRA\u015eI<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hem k\u0131zlar\u0131n hem de erkeklerin hayallerini s\u00fcsleyen, sevdi\u011fi ki\u015fi ile hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 birle\u015ftirecekleri en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn olan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc hem k\u0131z hem de erkek taraf\u0131 i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir heyecan ve co\u015fku dolu baz\u0131 gelenekleri i\u00e7ermektedir. Gelin adaylar\u0131 kadar fazla olmasa da damat adaylar\u0131n\u0131n da ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fi ve ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirirken de olduk\u00e7a keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131, damat olman\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartt\u0131\u011f\u0131 geleneklerden biri de damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. K\u0131za k\u0131na yak\u0131lmas\u0131, erke\u011fin de t\u0131ra\u015f edilmesinin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Bu iki olay\u0131n anlam\u0131 beraber bir hayat s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmeden \u00f6nce gen\u00e7 \u00e7iftin hem bedenen hem de ruhen paklanmas\u0131 manas\u0131na gelir. K\u0131na yak\u0131lmas\u0131 ve sa\u00e7 sakal t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczde yayg\u0131n bir gelenektir. Damat evinde d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131 \u201cdamat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131\u201d ile ba\u015flar. Bu gelenek, \u0130ske\u00e7e ilinin ova b\u00f6lgesindeki k\u00f6ylerinde canl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmeden uygulan\u0131yor. Genellikle damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7in haz\u0131rl\u0131klar sabah\u0131n erken saatlerinde ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131 sabah\u0131 damat, sa\u011fd\u0131\u00e7 ve damad\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile bir araya gelirler ve davul zurna e\u015fli\u011finde k\u00f6y meydan\u0131ndan ba\u015flayarak oynaya oynaya d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn evine \u00f6\u011flene do\u011fru onlar\u0131 bekleyen aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin ellerini \u00f6perek i\u00e7eriye giri\u015f yaparlar. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn \u00f6ncesi haz\u0131rl\u0131k s\u00fcreci her iki taraf i\u00e7in yo\u011fun olsa da, damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczde olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir. Damad\u0131n bah\u00e7e kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde s\u0131raya dizilmi\u015f olan \u00f6nce anne ve baban\u0131n ellerini \u00f6pen damat ve gen\u00e7ler s\u0131ras\u0131yla t\u00fcm aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin ellerini \u00f6perek i\u00e7eriye girerler ve onlar i\u00e7in haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f sofrada ikraml\u0131klardan yemek yerler t\u0131ra\u015f saati gelene kadar dans ederler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bir taraftan damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131na davet edilmi\u015f olan kad\u0131n ve erkek misafirler ak\u0131n ak\u0131n gelmeye ba\u015flar. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahipleri, erkek misafirleri bah\u00e7enin bir taraf\u0131na oturtur ve gelen misafirler damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131n\u0131n saatinin gelmesini bekler, ikraml\u0131klardan yer. Bu arada davul zurna t\u00fcm g\u00fcn \u00e7alar oynamak isteyen gen\u00e7 k\u0131z ve erkekler oynarlar. Bah\u00e7enin di\u011fer bir taraf\u0131na ise kad\u0131n misafirler oturtulur damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131na gelen misafirler giri\u015fte damad\u0131n annesine bah\u015fi\u015fini verir ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde ikram edilen etli pilav ile helvas\u0131n\u0131 yer ayran\u0131n\u0131 i\u00e7er. Davul zurna e\u015fli\u011finde damat ve damad\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131 evin balkonuna \u00e7\u0131kar yak\u0131n akrabalar taraf\u0131ndan ilk \u00f6nce damad\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne geleneksel motif i\u015flemeli \u00f6nl\u00fck i\u011fnelenir ard\u0131ndan arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011f omuzuna beyaz mendil iliklenir b\u00f6ylelikle damat t\u0131ra\u015fa haz\u0131r hale getirilir. Damad\u0131n annesi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r damat annesinin elini \u00f6per ve alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne as\u0131l\u0131r, el \u00f6pt\u00fcrmek isteyen aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri damada el \u00f6pt\u00fcr\u00fcr ve hediyelerini damad\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde as\u0131l\u0131 olan \u00f6nl\u00fc\u011fe asarlar. B\u00fcy\u00fck bir co\u015fku ile ger\u00e7ekle\u015fen el \u00f6pme adetinin ard\u0131ndan damat ve arkada\u015flar\u0131 \u00f6nl\u00fc arkal\u0131 haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015f sandalyelere oturtulur. Berber gerekli haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131ktan sonra damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131 ba\u015flar berberin sol koluna beyaz bir bez veya havlu ba\u011flan\u0131r ve aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri bu beze bah\u015fi\u015f s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Genelde damat evinde yap\u0131lan damat t\u0131ra\u015f\u0131 gelene\u011fi, damad\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne uzun beyaz bir \u00f6nl\u00fck tak\u0131lmas\u0131 ile ba\u015flar. Bu \u00f6nl\u00fc\u011fe damad\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131 veya akrabalar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan b\u0131rak\u0131lacak para, gen\u00e7 \u00e7ifte destek olma amac\u0131n\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r. Bilinen en usta berberin, mutlaka ustura vas\u0131tas\u0131yla, oyalanarak e\u011flenerek yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0131ra\u015f esnas\u0131nda, davul zurna t\u00fcm g\u00fcn \u00e7alar. T\u0131ra\u015f bitti\u011finde y\u00fcz\u00fc y\u0131kan\u0131p parf\u00fcmlenen damat, t\u00fcm arkada\u015f ve akrabalar\u0131 ile g\u00f6nl\u00fcnce dans eder, e\u011flenir. T\u0131ra\u015f sona erdi\u011finde damad\u0131n sa\u011fd\u0131c\u0131 ve arkada\u015flar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan giydirilmesi de yine bir gelenektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bat\u0131 Trakya\u2019daki gelenekler, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel zenginli\u011fin ve sosyal ba\u011flar\u0131n bir yans\u0131mas\u0131d\u0131r. Her b\u00f6lge, kendine \u00f6zg\u00fc gelenekleri ve kutlama \u015fekilleriyle bu zenginli\u011fi art\u0131rmaktad\u0131r. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler, t\u00f6renler, gelenek ve g\u00f6renekler sadece bir birle\u015fme de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda ailelerin ve topluluklar\u0131n bir araya geldi\u011fi \u00f6zel anlar olarak da \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r. E\u011fer Bat\u0131 Trakya\u2019da d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlere kat\u0131lma \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z olursa, bu geleneklerin ve kutlamalar\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131 unutmay\u0131n!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
SEHER AHMET<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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DAMAT TIRA\u015eI Hem k\u0131zlar\u0131n hem de erkeklerin hayallerini s\u00fcsleyen, sevdi\u011fi ki\u015fi ile hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 birle\u015ftirecekleri en \u00f6nemli g\u00fcn olan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fc hem k\u0131z hem de erkek taraf\u0131 i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir heyecan ve co\u015fku dolu baz\u0131 gelenekleri i\u00e7ermektedir. Gelin adaylar\u0131 kadar fazla olmasa da damat adaylar\u0131n\u0131n da ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fi ve ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirirken de olduk\u00e7a keyif ald\u0131\u011f\u0131, damat olman\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131<\/p>\n